Realizing Fears and Next Steps

Ever since my fiancée left me, a few things have been constant:  for one, I’m usually alone with my thoughts. In addition to this, I notice other couples more. It seems like there’s always a downtrodden man, along with a with a woman who doesn’t appear to care he’s there, along with a few kids. This is very common as well as my nightmare. I don’t want to seem anti-child or anti-woman, but I tend to think our family structure is an artifact of time, probably yet another Roman Empire holdover.

I have never had kids or a wife, and so I’ve spent a lot of time wondering WIIFM (What’s In It For Me?). I actually prefer this, as my to-do list is quite extensive. Moreover, I think we have a responsibility to future generations. After all, we didn’t need to figure out electricity or indoor plumbing. Also, we have benefitted significantly from the contributions of others, and it seems unlikely we’re done.

And so, …I have no clever rejoinder, sorry. Keep up the hard work. If you don’t work hard, please start.

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